THE ABUSE HOLD
Don’t get hurt, be aware! Live the happiness of being able to decide about your life and make your own decisions.
Abuse and misuse are composed of moments and spaces where we are not aware of our own reality. This is why, first, we have to learn what our own reality means. In our lives, we live like we could understand our reality by only doing like others do, like we don’t have a chance to choose our own reality. What we are doing, or, what has been taught to us is that we don’t want to know what we want from life, and this is why we even hide it from ourselves. Yet, only if we try something different, something we don’t know, we will understand what we will have to believe.
When we are not able to stay in our own space and protect it, someone else’s energy and space affects you. Thereby, you are abused and misused. Which means that, unintentionally, involuntarily, you enter someone else’s sphere of influence.
The difference between abuse and misuse is that, abuse is a space created intentionally and willingly, and misuse is the space created unintentionally.
ABUSE
For instance, while you are being raised, your mother thinks that you have to be a good cook. In her own mind, this point of view is her duty to prepare you for your future life. This situation, like teaching you how to become a good cook, will always be a priority in your life until you grow up. In fact, this is abuse. It is a manipulation, with no hidden agenda, done because it is believed to be right.
MISUSE
Let’s have a look at misuse: A very close friend of yours, a friend with whom you spend all your social time together, insists on taking you to a place that will serve her/his priorities, even though you have warned that friend, informed her/him that you don’t want to go and that you don’t feel happy in that place. On top of that, even though you have clearly told that friend that going there makes you unhappy and you don’t want to be there, he/she takes you there by “manipulating” you.
Your friend does this either by manipulating energy or feelings, or if necessary by threatening to end your friendship by sweat talking you. This is misuse.
You may not be aware about being abused but you are aware about being misused, only you don’t have the power or the awareness to intervene, that’s all. This is why it’s a misuse. When you are abused you may be aware but not be able to get out of it whereas when you are misused you may not be aware and you are not able to get out of it.
When a person is subject to any form of abuse; being physical, cognitive, emotional, monetary or any other structure of abuse, it will energetically lock it in its body, and keep it away from itself.
This special session will allow the body to release this hold. Because what keeps repeating itself in the structure of this reality is that it will prepare you for the next abuse you are going to encounter or live. As a result of this, as you were re-taking a hit on your body, as you were re-experiencing the abuse , you will be locking the energy of the feeling being hurt, sadness and being wrong. The mind treats the misuse while you experience it. Later, although it is not your choice, the mind sends a message telling you this was your choice and normalizes it. Until you raise your awareness in this aspect…
Here is an example:
- To be powerful and have a good income space in business life; you have to be a lawyer, a doctor or an engineer.
- For a happy marriage; in order to have a basic guarantee, you have to choose someone rich.
- For an easy retirement; you have to invest in real state.
- For an incredible sex life; you have to choose someone with a perfect body.
Discover the abuses you have normalized; the misuses you have experienced
To have awareness in your life and for a new future; here at Access Turkey, we are waiting for you to come and discover the Abuse Holding session that can help you open a new chapter.