I am going to tell you how I chose my point of view I noticed towards something I faced. Telling the incident directly will create a gossip platform and its energy defiles our soul. However, the conclusion of it may be a light or inspiration for you.
I see life as a football league as far as I have info on it.
Think of a gifted child, his journey starts when he is a little child. First step is to become a part of one of the best teams’ junior schools. Then trainings, scoutings if possible and getting lost if life does not give the opportunity despite his talent or he cannot accept his gift.
Money, society, factors suppose that you have got rid off all these and you are in a dog –eat – dog World, in the best place.
Actually your time of being yourself starts there. That is the place where you need to be yourself. Only talent won’t serve in the big picture. You need to decide: Are you going to imitate the brothers you think the best, apply their techniques in the same way? Or are you going to be you?
What league’s man are you? First or second? Or are you going to be a player of an ameteur league all your life?
Where have we reached? Choices! 🙂
It is nice to look at and be inspired by what others do.
I have observed people more intelligent and talented than me all my life. I have tried to see what I can learn from them. It has contributed to my development journey a lot yet imitation is another world no matter what its emotion is.
Call it being enlightened or being inspired or whatever. If you have an unique reverse – shot technique, you will not have te chance to display it all your life as you take example, imitate the big brothers you think the best.
What happens if you imitate?
You postpone your being yourself journey for 3 months, and you operate it and pay it by 12 months installments which means you postpone choosing yourself.
As Gary says, in fact everything is just a choice.